Black Relationships : HOW COME SISTERS ARE NICER TO WHITE MEN?

NNQueen said:
uh oh Brother Isaiah, I feel that you just went and stirred up the pot! :blob fire:

Brothers James and Sekhemu, don't you think it's TOO EASY to dismiss this type of sister as being guilty of ignorance and self-hatred? People tend to make choices for tangible reasons. We don't have to like the choices they make and how they behave as a result, but can we exclusively relegate their behavior to ignorance and self-hate?

Just curious?

Queenie :spinstar:

:wink: Queenie, I wasn't meaning to stir up the pot, just show folks the mirror they must be lookin' in must reflect only that which they wanna see(smile!) I see a lot more brothas holding white chicks hands in NYC than I care to admit... Same cats would feel dissed if a sista smiled at a white guy...

I'm don't want to pursue this point with too much fervor, fellas... If you're wise, you wont either... The numerous Black Male athletes MARRIED to White Women reflects our tendency toward kissing a lotta gray bootie, no???(smile!) Piling on the sistas because she smiles at someone other than you after all we see splashed all over every magazine and tabloid in the country regarding our exploits with Gray chicks means some cats is up to their trix again... Propaganda trix???

I agree with Queenie and Pan, I don't give a sista so described in this thread, the time of day... If that's what she likes God bless her... If she's just being nice, then God Bless her, too... I've been living long enough to know that the man a woman smiles at aint always the cat she really digs(smile!) Sistas aint givin' up their secrets, and they aint volunteering no knowledge to the unsuspecting... Aint that how the game is played???

It is just DUMB to think that because Girlfriend is smiling at a caucasian that she's in love with the guy... Maybe ole boy's money clip - not necessarily him(smile!) Maybe she's smiling at him to get at you, BigTown??? Marinate on that awhile, good brotha...(smile!)

Peace!
Isaiah
 
NNQueen said:
*passing around the kleenex to da brothas and offering them some cheese to go with their whine* :bawling:

:lol: :lol: :lol:

I'm not whining. I see what the Brotha sees. That's all.

I'm not really worried about Sistas on that tip anymore. All I want and need is ONE good Sista. That's it. I don't want a harem...just a Goddess. :D

BigTown: I feel you, bruh...dapz.
 
Awwww, that's so sweet Money! :) And I hope the good Lord sees fit to give you what you ask for! You'd think with so much beauty surrounding us that the choosing would come easily. But there's an old saying that goes, "anything worth having is worth waiting for." Do you believe that?

Queenie :spinstar:
 
Sekhemu said:
I can't imagine where this type of behavior would be coming from on the part of these "sistahs" if it's not self-hatred then it's poor home training at best. Which ofcourse is ignorance

I understand what you're saying Brother Sekhemu and I guess if we want to break it down deep enough, we could say that it all winds up in the same place--ignorance. But my sense of it is that sometimes we often allow for behavior with these types of reasons when all it really boils down to is a deliberate choice that some Black women consciously make.

Now like I said before, we could define it as ignorance and self-hate and even poor home training, but why give these types of women those types of excuses? Just call it like it most likely is and say the sister may prefer white men over Black men. In that case, let's move aside and let those sisters pass...quietly and unobstructed because when it's all said and done, all the rest of us just wanna find each other, move on and make each other happy. While they are standing at the counter for some vanilla ice cream, I'm right next to them with my finger raised in the air requesting some rocky road! To quote Brother Isaiah...."Can ya dig it?"

Queenie :lips:
 

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