bigtown wrote: I WOULD LIKE TO HEAR FEED BACK FROM THE BROTHERS THOUGH AND SEE IF THEY FEEL ME ON THIS.
Seems to me you posted this on the wrong forum... shouldn't it be in the "BROTHERS" forum?
Anyway, I smile and say a gracious thank you to ANYONE who holds a door open for me, be it an old white lady, old black man, young child or whoever. Color doesn't have a bearing on common courtesy.
Overall, I'm pretty friendly and make small talk with anyone who is also equally friendly.
SOME PEOPLE have an attitude period...black, white or other...and don't appreciate the small things people do out of simple kindness.