Hey fambly, I've been wetting my hair real good in the shower and pulling the tangles out with my fingers cause that is easier to do while it is wet and helps me to pick out a bigger fro. If I braid it at night the ends will be too straight for a fro in the morning, whereas if I w t it I can pick it out and shape it and it will curl up tight and neat when it dries. Well today I had maintenance to come look at my tub because it was running slow. He found a lot of hair in the drain. I don't like standing in two inches of water when I'm trying to take a shower so I don't want my tub to get slow again but what can I do to soften my hair so It will be more manageable?