Black Relationships : How can a brotha tell ...

[$$RICH$$]

yeah NNQueen her friend she would never let loose if she took u as her man !!!
i always wonder if my lady ever fart ! seem like it just don't happen ...lol

OanAfrica man u on point and crazyyyyyyyyy but laid out facts

 

[watzinaname]

NNQueen I've seen some married folk in my day who don't care who they blow out of the room, including each other....so much for that one....lol. I think that only applies during the courtship period.
And PanAfrica....

 

[$$RICH$$]

you will know when she start telling folks we just friends
or when she say you don't have to do that for me !
if she start telling you everything trust me y'all friends ....NO Chance

 

[MrBlak]

you will know when she start telling folks we just friends
or when she say you don't have to do that for me !
if she start telling you everything trust me y'all friends ....NO Chance

I realized this last list you put up is what I went thru/ am going thru. It ws never the big signs or anything rude. I just today alerted the girl in question that I wnt to hear from her where I stand to tie up loose ends and then move on from there as either a freind or a potential BF of hers.....but not some in between position where I could get played.


Thanks to all for the amuzing and informative responses.

 

[river]

Subtle hints of rejection aren't really distinguishable from hints of playing hard to get. Then again what you call playing hard to get is often just that the woman respects herself and doesn't want to jump into something without knowing who she's giving her heart to.

I am a little old fashioned and will let the man initiate romance. If I am interested you wilh know because I will return your calls and your kisses. If I'm not you will know because I will tell you. Until he indicates that he wants to be more than friends then that is all we are. Really the guy who starts off being my friend will win my heart faster than the guy who startts off trying to romance me. I just hate the feeling of being swept off my feet.