I have been reading the various topics on black relationships. I came here in September 2012, and there has been a lot of talk, black women are queens, those who marry out their race are not true to their cultural identity yada yada This is a picture of the Ugandan Lords Resistance Army general Joseph Kony's sister. She is a black woman from Africa, but I am sure that many here would never, never think of marrying her or someone looking like her. The hypocrisy is amazing. Men talk about black this and that and when the dust settles, they marry someone that looks a bit European. No thick lip, no dark dark skin woman...but will rant and rave about black culture. We all need to take a deep look within ourselves and be honest. Tar and feather me if ya'll like, but that's all right.