Why do people treat homosexual and bisexual men different from homosexual and bisexual women? Is there really a difference between the two, or it all based on community and societal perception?
I think comment in bold answers the question; to take it a step further, homosexual men become the receiver(anal sex) a role women women naturaly play during having sex with a man.
Lesbian has been perverted for male pleasure. Not no man will accept that a woman can be a full fledged lesbian - either they think they she will go 'both ways', do a 3some, or engage with another women for their own pleasure.
The homosexual men that i know feel the same way about straight men.
Do this trivialize 'true' lesbianism? Are men threatened by homosexual women and have to put in the context of patriarchy where they can filter and control it?
Lol.. doubt it, men are too in love with thier penies to feel threatened.
Why is a gay man viewed in the context of being a 'soft like a female' and 'well if you gonna be a woman, I'm gonna treat you like a woman!' and are often raped by heterosexual men? IOW, to demean a male is to make him into a 'woman'..... and by sexually assaulting him?
Because the homosexual male becomes the receiver during sex with his partner. The statement in bold is false.
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Why are women really scared of the so-called DL phenomenon? It is because their perception of what a man is or what he should be.... is tainted by thoughts of him getting it in the rectum? But why?
You are leaving out the risky behavior that goes along with the DL lifestyle which puts the unsuspecting women at risk. That is what scares the bejebus out of me.
Why are homosexuals outcasted on the basis of anal sex when...
1) - heterosexual couples engage in it.
2) - according to some studies only 25% engage on anal sex.
Its cultural.