- Jul 6, 2013
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The obvious issue is that Black men have been on the receiving end of the worst media onslaught for the past thirty years. Tell me, how many more "Black men ain't ish" panels filled with Black women do there have to be? Why is it Black women that are on tv stages in front of white folks crying about "I'm successful yet still can't find a good man."
The difference between the genders is that the media has bent in the favor of Black women to spite Black men. Again I say, Black men have been told we're "worthless" for thirty years and it has been magnified by the behaviors of the sisters, yet now that Brothers are countering that bias, it's a "problem"?
Remember, this is only one site. Black women however have Ebony(now run by white folks), Essence,Jet, Inyanla Vanzant, Oprah, Steve Harvey, Tyler Perry and any other Boule Negro to tell them they're "independent" and "don't need a man".
Blame the above individuals for assisting in the gender divide and not anonymous Brothers that post online to intellectually discuss observations of the behaviors of Black women in regards to Black men.
I'm not about to get any deeper into this subject, because it will get real deep up in here, and I don't even think some of you are at a place to be totally honest when it comes to the topic.
I am going to say this and leave it alone though: It is a conscious decision to be a serial dater of non-black women, it is a choice that is made. I will not believe that choice is made because a few black women said 'black men are worthless'. You all are making this decision because of other reasons that I do not believe some of you are even man enough to be honest about.
Black women could use the excuse that men do all kind of injustices to them in general as an excuse to not date men, but I don't see that happening. So.....
I'm not buying that excuse because I know it is much more deeper than just "you've talked about me" so I am leaving the entire race.