Black Entertainment : Hollywood has Blackwomen/Whitemen, BUT no Blackmen/Whitewomen

If they want to shut down a thread because I quoted her, then let them shut it down, I could care less and I won't be losing any sleep over that. You don't have to be a fan of hers, I don't consider myself a fan either, but she makes some really good points regardless of who likes it or not.

Some black men love to be with white women, so what difference does it make that she is married to a white man? :what:


The difference is that she married a white man to better promote her feminist, Black man bashing drivel.

Sisters that get down with the white boys try to "oneup" Black men, and contrarily Brothers date and marry out as an alternative to the climate that sisters have created.


You can't expect Brothers to "return home" to you, when you haven't created a home environment for him.

Kola, like Alice Walker, Halle Berry and any other white man enthusiast are traitors.
 
If I was married to a white Jewish woman and fail accused Black women of being color struck what would your response be?

Let me say this:

I am not against interracial dating or marriages, let me clear that up right now. I am not against true love in any shape, fashion, or form.

I am black lesbian and trust me, I don't discriminate against anyone being with who they want to be with; however, I am quite amazed at how some black men tend to flock to white and other women over black women though. I am truly amazed at how often and much this happens because I think some of it is a result of self-hate if I am honest.

If you are with someone because you just happen to fall in love with them, then ok, but if you are dealing with internalized self-hate, etc, that leads you to be with anybody except your own, then something is wrong with that. I just wish black men were more honest about why they make these choices, but ...anyway...

SN: I watched a video and listened Kola's response as to why she is married to a white man, she explained it quite well.
 
The difference is that she married a white man to better promote her feminist, Black man bashing drivel.

Sisters that get down with the white boys try to "oneup" Black men, and contrarily Brothers date and marry out as an alternative to the climate that sisters have created.


You can't expect Brothers to "return home" to you, when you haven't created a home environment for him.

Kola, like Alice Walker, Halle Berry and any other white man enthusiast are traitors.

It's a two way street.

You work together to create an environment for each other.
 
Let me say this:

I am not against interracial dating or marriages, let me clear that up right now. I am not against true love in any shape, fashion, or form.

I am black lesbian and trust me, I don't discriminate against anyone being with who they want to be with; however, I am quite amazed at how some black men tend to flock to white and other women over black women though. I am truly amazed at how often and much this happens because I think some of it is a result of self-hate if I am honest.

If you are with someone because you just happen to fall in love with them, then ok, but if you are dealing with internalized self-hate, etc, that leads you to be with anybody except your own, then something is wrong with that. I just wish black men were more honest about why they make these choices, but ...anyway...

SN: I watched a video and listened Kola's response as to why she is married to a white man, she explained it quite well.

With respect Sister, Black men have been honest. The problem is a lot of sisters can't handle that honesty.
 

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