Dgudge ... Welcome Welcome Welcome ...
Thanks for joining us and sharing.
I started reading The Help without knowing who the author was ... took it from my Daughter's book shelf ... and was immediately put off by the unauthentic attempt of portraying Black People ... I knew the author could not have been Black ... the Ebonics (which i happen to love) made me cringe to read. I quickly went to the author page or whatever it's called, and my thoughts were confirmed. I never picked the book up again (nor did i see the movie).
You're asking us questions ... from the outside looking in ... that we're trying to find answers to, and we're in it.
Why stop at city and state differences for your book ... look at the world ... Black People are mistreated all over it.
You talk of a fire, where the folk are displaced ... Black People are displaced every day on this planet ... and very few (if any) move in with the rich White People ... lol ... yeah ... that oughtta be a good story!
I suppose your interest / concern for us should be appreciated ... and it is ... to the degree it deserves.
Again ... thanks for sharing and good luck with your endeavor.
Destee
Thank you for your feedback. I really appreciate it.
1. That's exactly what I heard about the Help. White people, including me, were sucked in, but not so much on the other end. I think my community is working out some guilt still... or we are still out of touch. We'll read books that take place in the 60s, but what about now? That's kind of why I ended up choosing a modern day setting. Do you think that any of the reactions to the Help are a sign that reconciliation still hasn't happened between the two communities? Or is it just poorly written ebonics that is the only issue?
2. "You're asking us questions ... from the outside looking in ... that we're trying to find answers to, and we're in it."
The truth is... because of where I grew up, I'm not really at home in primarily white communities. I feel more at home in areas that are diverse, especially including the black culture that I grew up around. Is there any hope that I could ever be included as someone somewhat "in it" if I put myself in it? Sometimes I think I won't feel at home in either community, and that's probably what makes me instinctually think that a lot of racial aspects are still a part of the current reality. Shouldn't I be allowed to interact with something I have had first hand experience with? But it feels like I get excluded because I'm white. I know, I know... no one is going to feel sorry for me. I'm not asking that. I just think saying that I'm not "in it" is not exactly the most accurate assumption.
3. Definitely into looking at the world. I'm one of those who has focused way more on Africa, doing lots of non-profit work in East of Africa... so I'm kind of trying to understand stuff within my proximity right now. I'm sure if I ever even get a handle on this book, I could integrate worldwide elements into it as well. Thanks for the recommendation.
4. GOOD POINT. My story would be pretty naive if I had black families live with white families. Right when I read what you said, I thought about hurricane Katrina, where most families went to live with their family elsewhere, right? Thanks for giving me a dose of reality. I guess that's part of what I'm working through though; how much of the obvious separation in cities is just a matter of naturally wanting to be with the people who are similar to you? I wonder if I make the separation more dramatic than it is, but I really don't know. I'm sure there are as many answers to that as there are answers to any big questions. I'm sure it depends on who you ask. What do you think?
Thanks again for your feedback. In my little imaginary writer world, I can go directions which just aren't realistic, which is why I wrote here in the first place. Any other feedback is greatly appreciated.