So I been with this gentleman for quite some time...We both have daughters of the same age, but we both have not been formally introduce to each others' child. For one, I just don't let anyone into my daughter's life. But soon will, just not right now. And I feel that that is the reason why I have not met his. And to be perfectly honest I am not ready to meet her yet. Anyways, I've seen pictures of his child, and he's seen pictures of mine too. Today he was telling me he wanted to email me some pictures of him and then he said he wanted to send some pictures of his daughter too. And I was like, no I'd rather not get pictures of her, but you can send pictures of yourself. He seemed disappointed by my refusal, but I don't feel comfortable getting pictures of a child I have not met nor had a chance to bond with. He was like I just want you to see who I talk about all the time about. And so I told him how I felt. Should I have accepted the pictures of his daughter? Also, he is a great father (and I love it) and speaks of his child A LOT, but for some reason I'm not all that interested in hearing about his kid on a day to day basis. Am I rude for that? It's like, all of a sudden out of pretty much no where he'll say "My daughter is so spoiled" or "My daughter is so great." And we won't be talking about his daughter or mine and it's not like she is around when he says it, so I'm like "okay".... I'm not going to tell him to stop talking about his child, because I wouldn't want anyone to tell me to stop talking about my child. I feel like he wants me instantly bond with a child I haven't even met yet. Not that I would have a problem meeting her (just not now), plus she sounds like a great kid and all. I'm just real indifferent about the whole situation.