Black Relationships : Here's Why Black Women Should Stop Complaining About the Male/Female Ratio

[frankster]

Are you saying that a women (at that time in your life )would not stand a chance? You didn't find the fact she wanted a professional looking male with earning potential more appealing? Is it better she approached a scrub? So we can't have a standard for initial contact? It can't be about how you look but we're often approached because of how we look? When would it have beenokay for a woman to approach you?

FYI, I never, ever approach a guy first. Just not with it. I may show slight interest with eye contact but that is as far as I am willing to go.

Of course they stood plenty of chance.....of the 4 F's kind - which is a HS behaviour that I have abandon.

I did not get with them because they thought I was somebody I was not....a buppie
No....there is nothing wrong with going after a man who appears rich....I was not
The best way for a woman to approach me is like how you and liberty challenge me and my beliefs.....In short I am a black conscious junkie for as long as I have known myself.

 

[Liberty]

Yes James, some BW are gay. Sorry to break it to you like this. LOL

You know how when they run those stats down they make it seem like BW are all perfect in every way, and only BM have issues. It doesn't make sense to me.

 

[Liberty]

Of course they stood plenty of chance.....of the 4 F's kind - which is a HS behaviour that I have abandon.

I did not get with them because they thought I was somebody I was not....a buppie
No....there is nothing wrong with going after a man who appears rich....I was not
The best way for a woman to approach me is like how you and liberty challenge me and my beliefs.....In short I am a black conscious junkie for as long as I have known myself.

*smile*

I am flattered

 

[JenaBee63]

Of course they stood plenty of chance.....of the 4 F's kind - which is a HS behaviour that I have abandon.

I did not get with them because they thought I was somebody I was not....a buppie
No....there is nothing wrong with going after a man who appears rich....I was not
The best way for a woman to approach me is like how you and liberty challenge me and my beliefs.....In short I am a black conscious junkie for as long as I have known myself.

If you don't mind, what is 4 F's?

 

[jamesfrmphilly]

If you don't mind, what is 4 F's?

you really don't want to know.......