I seem to be at a loss. I've been in an interracial relationship for 13months now, and everything was going fine, my parents liked him, his parents adored me, but recently my friends have been 'different' around him. I asked them what was wrong and they made it perfectly clear that they didn't like my boyfriend because he was white. They didn't approve of me dating 'the enemy.'. Normally in a situation like this I would turn to my friends and ask them what I shold do, but that's not applicable in this situation So I'm after an honest, sensible, decent response.... I've had the same friends for 17 years... we've done everything together -- all through highschool and undergrad and my friend's mother's death.... but now they show their true nature, one that I never knew existed... and one they kept hidden for 13 months!!! (I guess they thought our relationship wouldn't last so they didn't bother to comment) I'm really at a loss.... Should I abandon my friends for what could be a perfect relationship .... or should I put up with my friends' racist beliefs... even though it may have reppurcussions later down the road?!!!! Plz, people... this is my last avenue!!