Black Relationships : help - i'm pregnant but boyfriend won't prove he's left other woman

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  1. confide13

    confide13 New Member MEMBER

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    OK my first time.I gave an ultimatum and he chose to leave but came back. I found out he was messing with a Co worker. I asked him to call in front of me to let her know its over he said they had only talked a short time.I'm pregnant and he say he want to be with me but wouldn't change his number or do anything to prove he was finished with the relationship. I love him but what should I do help.
     
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    un love him...
     
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    Dear, ultimatums like that arent love. Moreover, you shouldnt have unprotected sex with a guy that doesnt think enough of you to marry





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    confide13 New Member MEMBER

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    U dnt think it will work
     
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    no, it is NOT working. you need to take a step back. only love people who LOVE YOU.
    you should NOT be accepting the treatment that you are getting.

    BTW : stop having unprotected SEX.
     
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    He probably can't love you. It's his second son with you? Sis, you need to value yourself more.
     
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    50 years of womens lib and sisters still think having babies wil tie a guy down?!!? He told you who and what he is. Why dont you believe your eyes and ears? This is his gag reflex and your foolish actions. And bringing children into the situation made it worse. He may love you. But no one wants a gun to their head.





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    Dear not so sure........His action has spoken and showed you his true side take note to this

    If he cheat on a good woman is like taken trash over treasure so don't be fooled into his myth
    now that you bare child time you think for you and that child to be and move forward from trash
     
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