- Jul 2, 2003
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More compassion and less chastising
MsInterpret
This site used to have members that were more compassionate.
There have been serious issues posted here, and thru advice lives
have changed and been Saved. Actually SAVED!
The members today are older; some married
some single and some are rough around the edges
We no longer have our teens.
They used to come here, and welcomed our advice
centered on our advice, some for five years or more and grew to
be productive and stable adults.
Our advice wasn’t harsh and chastising in relationship issues.
The women posted in the Sisters forum and the women helped
each other in these types of relationship issues.
Other women know better what you’re experiencing.
I am married. For 27 years this year to the same woman.
We have been together for 37 years this year.
I would never allow her to experience another woman in her face saying I had your man.
Dedication comes from respect.
Change comes from desire.
Trust has to be established.
Ask your man... “Can you be with only me”?
His reply immediately would be yes… then he has your feelings
and your concerns in mind.
You are asking for monogamy.
Trust, and possibly a long term commitment.
Challenge him. If he doesn’t live up move on.
LIFE IS ABOUT NO FEAR.. Not even DEATH!
There are no guarantees in love.
Relationships end in ships
because they sink and fail...
The key in a long term relationship is to enjoy the time
and each day you have with other.
If it ends you have dedicated 100% percent and he has
dedicated 100% there is no 50/50 that
is half of each of you.
Some peole are afraid of that ship sinking.
So they cheat, half dedicate and generally never commit.
Never experiencing love... just having sex.
Advice is tie your ship to his… or he ties his ship to yours.
Although the relationship is equal, usually one ship will take the lead.
Yours or his.
Your ship is family, friends and support networks to help
you get back on your feet if you find yourself in trouble.
Get some professional advice if you like… talk to your pastor.
African Americans we don't do the couch thing...and we don't need more drugs.
Trust your intuition.. it is right.
Ask questions and keep both eyes open to everything
around you, involving you and your child.
If your man isn’t in church find out how he feels about religion.
Does he believe in GOD.
Make your child your first focus.. not your desire for companionship.
If you do this wrong.. regret is all yours.
Your child… does he love your child?
Your child is first to you, and should
become just as important to him.
Running a business is hard.
In California we have Metro PCS www.metropcs.com
for forty dollars a month with unlimited talk, and text. ask him.. you can't tell anyone anything to consider using it so you two can stay in touch.
You won’t know if he has gotten away from some old ways and still hanging
with elements that perpetrate ( illegal activity ) until you spend time with him.
Good luck on what ever you decide…
I hope this site can get back to more caring, sharing.
It isn’t lost just laying dormant.
The Brother’s need to get more into their own issues and support
each other better the Sister’s need to get back together.
This site is predominately female when more men came along in 2005 or so..
they stomped up in here like King Kong…big feet and bad attitude
and stomped out some good will.
Fighting all the time…about GOD.. and the white man's religion. Worrying they are being trolled by whites. SMDH
Arms to short to [BOX] for any GOD!
Grown folks Black grown folks… with no unity in mind or heart.
Welcome to Destee it is a great site .. just a few in need of a Grande V8
You can take it girl.. stop running ...uh!
You can take it girl.. stop running ...uh!
Dedicated to you... cause you are strong!
MsInterpret
This site used to have members that were more compassionate.
There have been serious issues posted here, and thru advice lives
have changed and been Saved. Actually SAVED!
The members today are older; some married
some single and some are rough around the edges
We no longer have our teens.
They used to come here, and welcomed our advice
centered on our advice, some for five years or more and grew to
be productive and stable adults.
Our advice wasn’t harsh and chastising in relationship issues.
The women posted in the Sisters forum and the women helped
each other in these types of relationship issues.
Other women know better what you’re experiencing.
I am married. For 27 years this year to the same woman.
We have been together for 37 years this year.
I would never allow her to experience another woman in her face saying I had your man.
Dedication comes from respect.
Change comes from desire.
Trust has to be established.
Ask your man... “Can you be with only me”?
His reply immediately would be yes… then he has your feelings
and your concerns in mind.
You are asking for monogamy.
Trust, and possibly a long term commitment.
Challenge him. If he doesn’t live up move on.
LIFE IS ABOUT NO FEAR.. Not even DEATH!
There are no guarantees in love.
Relationships end in ships
because they sink and fail...
The key in a long term relationship is to enjoy the time
and each day you have with other.
If it ends you have dedicated 100% percent and he has
dedicated 100% there is no 50/50 that
is half of each of you.
Some peole are afraid of that ship sinking.
So they cheat, half dedicate and generally never commit.
Never experiencing love... just having sex.
Advice is tie your ship to his… or he ties his ship to yours.
Although the relationship is equal, usually one ship will take the lead.
Yours or his.
Your ship is family, friends and support networks to help
you get back on your feet if you find yourself in trouble.
Get some professional advice if you like… talk to your pastor.
African Americans we don't do the couch thing...and we don't need more drugs.
Trust your intuition.. it is right.
Ask questions and keep both eyes open to everything
around you, involving you and your child.
If your man isn’t in church find out how he feels about religion.
Does he believe in GOD.
Make your child your first focus.. not your desire for companionship.
If you do this wrong.. regret is all yours.
Your child… does he love your child?
Your child is first to you, and should
become just as important to him.
Running a business is hard.
In California we have Metro PCS www.metropcs.com
for forty dollars a month with unlimited talk, and text. ask him.. you can't tell anyone anything to consider using it so you two can stay in touch.
You won’t know if he has gotten away from some old ways and still hanging
with elements that perpetrate ( illegal activity ) until you spend time with him.
Good luck on what ever you decide…
I hope this site can get back to more caring, sharing.
It isn’t lost just laying dormant.
The Brother’s need to get more into their own issues and support
each other better the Sister’s need to get back together.
This site is predominately female when more men came along in 2005 or so..
they stomped up in here like King Kong…big feet and bad attitude
and stomped out some good will.
Fighting all the time…about GOD.. and the white man's religion. Worrying they are being trolled by whites. SMDH
Arms to short to [BOX] for any GOD!
Grown folks Black grown folks… with no unity in mind or heart.
Welcome to Destee it is a great site .. just a few in need of a Grande V8
You can take it girl.. stop running ...uh!
You can take it girl.. stop running ...uh!
Dedicated to you... cause you are strong!
