OK, here's the situation ... I was engaged 6 months ago. To a guy that was great ... the reason why we broke up was because he lied to me about a couple of important issues ... we decided to remain friends ... in our friendship he was telling me about these relationships with other women. It ever bothered me I was just there to lend a listening ear and give friendly advice. Well, his cell phone got turned off and we lost touch and we haven't spoken since New Years, until .... he called me yesterday ... we talked about what's been up with us. I made a comment about all the other girls he probably has been seeing ... he tried to make it seem like I didn't know the half of it. He abruptly ended the conversation in a joking matter by saying he was getting off the phone because he didn't want me "to get the wrong idea"? what???? So now I'm thinking about this man I was engaged to and all the reasons I loved him and all the reasons I left him. Since he is changing the good is starting to out weigh the bad ... so I was dying to call him today but I figured I couldn't sell myself out like that ... somebody please help me what do I do? Should I try to talk to him again or should I just let the past be the past and move on. Or is my loneliness beginning to consume my rational thoughts and I just want to pursue him to fill that void ... and if I do, in reality things will be the same as they were?