I need advice badly! Help! Me and my ex do NOT speak AT ALL. But about two weeks ago we spoke briefly over text and i decided to surprise him with an unexpected visit. Well what I didnt expect was a woman to be there-especially the woman he was with before me. They have been on and off for 11 years! Well, I didnt say anything, I just left and I called him asking how he could do that to me-I cried, and was really upset. Well he came over to talk about things and he spent the night. I was in heaven! He also told me that that woman was there to stay in his life-and that she was very important to her and he has deep feelings for her and has feelings for me but not enough to pursue me-WHAT DOES THAT MEAN?!! Well he spent the night and like I said I was in heaven!! I tried to act normal as we were before and he informed me its human nature to have feelings for someone you were once involved with but AGAIN i wont or will pursue you. Look at the whole pie and not just one night of me coming to visit you! WHat does all of this mean?!?!?!?!?!?!?! Mind you for the past two weeks, we have been texting and etc..and out of the blue he calls me and tells me again "its not going to be anything with me and him and that the writing is on the wall" bringing up the woman he said was very "important to him". After this same conversation, he text me two days later and we've been doing this. (I know this question will be asked and yes sexual content has been exchanged via text)-That is not the majority of what is exchanged. Can yall help a sista out and decipher this mess please?!