Black Relationships : He'd Rather Have a White Girl

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Why post this garbage? This :bs: about "perceptions" when the reality is that when black men marry, they marry black women! Why push the smoke and mirrors?
I read all thirty pages of this thread. No one posted a link. lot's of percentages.
I do not recall seeing one link.

The "marriage squeeze" refers to the perception that the most "eligible" and "desirable" African American men are marrying non-African American women at a higher rate, leaving African American women who wish to marry African American men with fewer partnering options.
It's BS if you say so. None are marrying below their social or income status.
 

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I read all thirty pages of this thread. No one posted a link. lot's of percentages.
I do not recall seeing one link.
Wrong poster. I said nothing about the statistics you presented.

It's BS if you say so. None are marrying below their social or income status.
Whether I say so or not, it's :bs: Why single out this little :bs: blurb about black women not marrying? After all, if black women aren't marrying.... and since when black men marry, they marry black women.... that means black PEOPLE aren't marrying, not "just" black women.
 

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White women tend to let a man know she likes him. They do it openly. Are they easy...not really just forward and easier to keep the topic straight to the hugging. I have been approached several times before I was married and after. In both Missouri and California. That is no B.S. One even stated and my wife heard it and we laughed it off. She would f me.
 

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Wrong poster. I said nothing about the statistics you presented.



Whether I say so or not, it's :bs: Why single out this little :bs: blurb about black women not marrying? After all, if black women aren't marrying.... and when black men marry, they marry black women.... that means black PEOPLE aren't marrying, not "just" black women.
Perception is Reality! And I don't particularly like that mantra some spout.
But from those / their perceptions they act or judge. If anything about that article is disagreeable.
I cant help the rub.

Looking back here is some numbers that in 2010 show that the number is not so high.

Black Husband


White wife - 390,000
Black wife - 4,072,000
Asian wife -
39,000
Other wife - 66,000
 

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Perception is Reality! And I don't particularly like that mantra some spout.
But from those / their perceptions they act or judge. If anything about that article is disagreeable.
I cant help the rub.
Obviously that is YOUR perception - doesn't make it real. And since it's NOT real.... and you KNOW it's not real.... it's not that the BLURB is disagreeable. No, it's you being disagreeable to reality, to known FACT.

Btw, if you were reporting statistics on the census and the article says black men have tails, would you not only print it, but DEFEND that lie?

I think not. :10400:

Looking back here is some numbers that in 2010 show that the number is not so high.
Black Husband

White wife - 390,000
Black wife - 4,072,000
Asian wife -
39,000
Other wife - 66,000
Reality is a beautiful thing. :toast:
 

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I was, so to say, backing up your observation about black male/black female couplings with the statistics. I was "begging to differ" about your saying you and your mate are an interracial couple. If your wife is of mixed race, it makes her one of the 85% of all African-Americans that are of mixed race. The degree of mixture is irrelevant; it is the mixture that counts. I wrote that "mulatto is not a race." It stands. There is black, white and yellow, but no mulatto race.

The word "interracial" means between the races. 2 African-Americans coming together does not constitute an "interracial" couple. No matter how washed of melanin your partner may be, well, ask a white person what race she is. They're relieve you of your confusion.
My wife, by virtue of being mixed, falls into the category of "other" when it comes to race. A black woman marrying an "other" means we have an interracial marriage.

And there are not only black, white and yellow. There is red as well. Native Americans fall in that category. then we have mixed children, or "other."
 

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My wife, by virtue of being mixed, falls into the category of "other" when it comes to race. A black woman marrying an "other" means we have an interracial marriage.

And there are not only black, white and yellow. There is red as well. Native Americans fall in that category. then we have mixed children, or "other."

There is no such thing as a Red race. Native Americans fall under "Yellow" - their ancestors came across the Bering Strait from China to America.

So, of course, there is no such thing as a Other race.

One recently "mixed," and the other, of "mixed" ancestry, together, do not constitute an interracial marriage.
 

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There is no such thing as a Red race. Native Americans fall under "Yellow" - their ancestors came across the Bering Strait from China to America.

So, of course, there is no such thing as a Other race.

One recently "mixed," and the other, of "mixed" ancestry, together, do not constitute an interracial marriage.
Well, then according to your logic, there is no such thing as an interracial couple because white, black, brown, yellow, whatever, by now all are of "mixed" ancestry.
 

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By now, there are no "pure" races anymore. All of the mixing that has gone on through the centuries has resulted in most everyone being of "mixed ancestry"
 

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