So what then is the destiny of our black men? Now we know where he comes from, does it matter if he does not walk in his heritage. If he does not proclaim a name for himself he may as well accept the names he was given. I heard a million speaches yesterday saying the same thing in diffrent ways. I awoke today to find the so called negro in the same state I left him in. what then if hes comfortable with being a ******. So what to do about him being afraid to stand up and be a real man, if he finds strenth in his weakness. Dead weight is heavy and it rests upon the back of the black woman.