i've been reading many poems and threads on this site today...and i want to state this without offence to anyone. There is a lot of pain here...a lot of pain. Some is from childhood, some from relationships, some from our family and people...but there's a lot of pain. The greatest thing we can do for ourselves is to heal, for i can say that everything and all things we are going through and feeling doesn't have to be this way. We are the key, the lock, the student and the master all rolled up into one. If we will take the time to begin where all things begin, we will heal and see our lives not only as new, but as the real miracle that it is. We can let go of the pain, the garbage, the fear, the anger, the frustration and the sadness in our lives...but we have to begin where it all started. I am fully responsible for each and every word i say but not how you may understand them. There are three rules to begin your healing; 1. Don't believe anything i say... 2. Don't believe anything you say, 3. don't believe anything anyone else has to say. Truth is the one thing that never has to be defended, justified or enforced...it is what it is and will always be something different for everyone. I will present much here on everyones healing process and the aid them to reach and have the greatest love ever known...the love of self. Remember, you can never find outside of yourself what you do not first find inside youself.