When a man gets thru smelling himself. He has to get back to the fact he is a man. With responsibilities to himself, his friends, his to his family especially. The order is out of line. Family his personal, and his paternal lineage. Should be first. Then himself, to his friends and others extended. Standing strong is right. For your children if you have. I’m not here to preach. But I still struggle. Thru all the right turns, and missteps, from others. Standing Strong.