This week I read in one of our local papers in the relationship/love section. A young woman whose is 23 years old complaining of the behaviour of her boyfriend. He does not like her going anywhere and she says that she feels trapped in the relationship. What caught my eye was the part where she said that when he is making love to her he threatens he will kill her. He is making love and threatening his girl at the same time. How can one equate a pleasureable activity with threatening words. Well well. Maybe when the sugar is in his head he says crazy things..Lol. Why do our young girls end up with such nuisance men. I firmly believe that our young women need to begin thinking for themselves. At such a young age she should be making plans for a future not settling down with a no good bum.