I recently broke-up with my fiance' because I found out he's been cheating yet again. I was told by many people once a cheater always a cheater but silly me believed that he had learned his lesson. This has been a nine year relationship and its hard for me to move on. He's constantly calling and singing the blues and trying to work his way back in. I know there is no way I could possibly be committed to this man again since he is not worthy of my trust. I decided the best way for me to move on is to have zero contact with him or his family of which some of his family members I've become close with. I would like suggestions on how I can get through this storm, some encouragement and advice from folks who've gone through a similar situation.