I started this thread, because from day to day I see Brothers and Sisters crossing the racial lines in search of love. I do not condone nor condemn it. What is strange is, too often I see a look of desparation or embarrassment in their eyes while in public during an encounter with their fellow Brethren or Sistren. Has this happened to any of you all? Have you all noticed this also? I suspect that I will get a few vague responses, a keystroke lashing, or, perhaps no response at all. Please feel free to testify if comfortable in doing so...*equipping ears with plugs, and protecting chest with bullet proof*.