Hey There Sista Queenie,,I am slowly getting back into the flow sis...hoping to come to chat soon
These are very good points, first off I was a natural Tom Boy because there was no girls on my block to play with when I was a child, so I played with the boys games like football, baseball. I liked wrestling as well as Boxing I enjoyed these sports much more then dolls even those I had dolls I rather play football, it wasn't until I reach a certain age in my life, around 11 or 12 that the more softer and seriuos side of me came to light, and I think it had a lot to do with the responsibility placed upon me by my alders to watch the younger ones in my family, keep them out of trouble entertain them , feed them, I guess it all came out to mothering them, but then again I was the oldest so I don't think it matter that I was a girl, but that I was the oldest. The maternal instinct of wanting to have children hit in my late teens, and reason had to guide my heart during those times not to let it happen. And then I notice that this instinct would come almost every 2 to 3 years, even now. It's natural. I feel we all born with an instinct that is trigger during a certan period of our growth that is a natural part of our sexuality, it is just some of the craziness that is going in this world interferes with the natural process
These are very good points, first off I was a natural Tom Boy because there was no girls on my block to play with when I was a child, so I played with the boys games like football, baseball. I liked wrestling as well as Boxing I enjoyed these sports much more then dolls even those I had dolls I rather play football, it wasn't until I reach a certain age in my life, around 11 or 12 that the more softer and seriuos side of me came to light, and I think it had a lot to do with the responsibility placed upon me by my alders to watch the younger ones in my family, keep them out of trouble entertain them , feed them, I guess it all came out to mothering them, but then again I was the oldest so I don't think it matter that I was a girl, but that I was the oldest. The maternal instinct of wanting to have children hit in my late teens, and reason had to guide my heart during those times not to let it happen. And then I notice that this instinct would come almost every 2 to 3 years, even now. It's natural. I feel we all born with an instinct that is trigger during a certan period of our growth that is a natural part of our sexuality, it is just some of the craziness that is going in this world interferes with the natural process