Black People : Happy Holidays EVERYONE --- especially for the lonely and the depressed!

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  1. IntuitioninMD

    IntuitioninMD Banned MEMBER

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    I know that there are a lot of lonely and depressed people around this time of year for what ever reason. I just want to say that YOU are special just like everyone else. Find that place in your heart and your mind that makes you feel warm inside. If you can't find it... just know that God loves you and so do I. Hardtimes are to make us stronger. Trials and temptations are to make us stronger individuals. (Maybe this thread should be in the spiritual forum). *HUGS* Everyone else enjoy your holidays too. :grouphug:
     
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    I think due to past memories, holiday expectations, and life overload, this time of year brings on even more depressed and lonely feelings than normal. This is what I believe IntuitionMD is getting at, although yes, people do feel this at other times during the year, just more so now.
     
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    HAPPY HOLIDAY.. you will see me once a year like you saw Santa!

    Intuition. Thanks for the well wishes.

    Those who really need this prayer probably won't get to read this, because they have no electricity. No home any more. This will be the coldest winter ever all across the board. In this United States of let them die.

    Republican thinking. It’s OK while they drinking.
    Cognac living well, having food.

    Did you know Bush has placed?

    Fourteen trees in that place. ( How many does he need? Merry Xmas )
    He gets to live in free for four more years.

    He is a waste of life’s time,
    and four years is a long time.

    To tolerate the mistake of
    those who helped put him in.

    So send a plate of food.
    These well wishes are really still spooled.
    On a computer they ( depressed and lonely ) can't even read.

    Visit a shelter, donate some money to homeless, and hand out food. Everyone can make a difference.



    HAPPY HOLIDAYS..




    Well this is the set up.

    Spend the most you have all year.
    You have six days left in the year; get all they
    ( department stores and capitalist ) can before it ends.

    Holidays placed here for that.

    Depress you and make you eat
    a lot and get fat, takes all spring
    to loose that big rear.

    Cause you ate and laid
    dormant all winter like
    a hibernating bear.


    Those same folks have it bad all year.
    More piling on at the end my dear.
    Brings the situation to a head.

    They tell us the poor, to
    take care give taxes more.
    To feed the ones they neglected with our taxes.

    Folks need compassion and shelter all year.
    Problems all around.
    Closed eyes see no evil,
    closed ears hear no evil,
    cover the mouth don’t speak
    of the things just yet.

    Now it’s Holiday time everyone looks around.
    Get the sprit to give not forget.

    Then the New Year is here.
    Back to basic. Don’t care.

    Attitude until December again.
    For the day after Turkey,
    and a sale here and there.
    All scream Merry Christmas is here.
     
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    1Greaterthan~I Well-Known Member MEMBER

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    Are you always this psychotically warm and fuzzy :weird:

    How special... :welldone:

    This was so endearing.

    Thanks but no thanks :grouphug:

    Happy Holidays :hearts1:
     
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    does this mean ms MD will be visiting me at Christmas time? :jump:
     
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    very interesting

    Some people are just so interesting to me.... 50% of these posts replying to this thread not just negative but VERY DEPRESSING NEGATIVE... and we wonder why OUR PEOPLE COLLECTIVELY SUFFER FROM DEPRESSION, ALCOHOLISM, DRUGS, AND OTHER THINGS.... some.. people are just NEGATIVE.... even when they have the opportunity to share a loving thought ... they choose to be negative. This is unfortunate.

    Lets see... what has the negative replies probably accomplished..... Maybe the depressed are more depressed... Maybe the lonely feel even lonelier than ever.

    Everyone should just get up.... find a mirror ... and GIVE YOURSELF A BIG WARM HUG.... AT LEAST ACT LIKE YOU LOVE YOURSELF ..... AT LEAST FOR THE SEASON..... :)

    I hope... I at least made... the lonely and depressed laugh or crack a smile... at least for the moment..... :)

    Just know... that some of these people will always feel the need to let it out.... :poop: :puke: :dance: :bellydance: :eek: :bazooka: :great: :dance1: :spank: :coffee: :martian: :nuts: :wine: :thanks: :bowdown: :picture: :flowers: :censored: :playball: :jam: :uzi: :band: :hulk: :explode: :getout: :grouphug: :rolleyes: :tongue3: :yo: :laugh: :horse: :blowkiss: :hearts1:

    Yeah.... whatever floats... your boat....

    HAPPY HOLIDAYS....
     
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    likewise as we make a face smile or feel better around the holiday tymes
     
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    Watz,
    In all due respect, surely I understand what you think, she's thinking, but...
    in your words: "Holiday expectations" and "life overload" ...saids a lot and it's quite deep. Yes it is expected of us to "do, say and feel" a certain way...this time of the year, but we're conditioned to do say and feel this way, and that's so sad...
    that we have to wait until a "certain" time of the year, to touch a life
     
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    Respectfully taking into consideration, all you have said queentswana. I'll give her the benefit of the doubt and assume she knows this....that depression and loneliness do not only occur during this season, and that those who suffer this way need support during the rest of the year as well. I gather that what you're saying as well is if someone would have given a helping hand previously during the year, that perhaps the person wouldn't be so close to the edge...Perhaps not, but it's hard to pinpoint exactly what will set a person off sometimes, and send them on a downward spiral. I get what you are saying though.
     
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