Black Relationships : Grown & Sexy B-day Gift For a Man?

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  1. Smartgurl

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    I have a friend who I've known for 5.5 years who I care about immensely. We are not yet official, but for a while we have entertained the thought of being together. His 21st birthday is coming up soon and I want to get him something grown and sexy. Do you have any suggestions?
     
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    I was reading this and at first I really was trying to think of something. But for a man, I don't know. I was thinking back to when I was 21 and a Keg came to mind. :toast: Ha, ha! I'm sure someone will have soome better ideas.
     
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    Something "grown and sexy" yet not personal because the relationship contract isn't finalized. :lol:hmmmmmmmmmm

    I have several suggestions. :D

    1. Write a poem stating how you feel about him. Be sincere. Place it in a glass frame. Use some fancy script too...and place some angels or hearts or something like that in it. You know...make it girly. :lol: This will be unexpected if you don't write poetry. He'll be blown away by it. He'll be like...dang, she's really feeling me. :lol: Well, he will if he's a conscious brother. I'ono. :lol:

    2. Cologne...so that when he wears it your face will light up with a bright smile and he'll know why. It'll be ya'll little secret. :wink: *shhhhhh, don't tell nobody. :D* Hey, watch the touchy-feely stuff. You know how ya'll women get. :lol:

    Now, if ya'll hooked up...I'd have a whole new list of suggestions. :lol: Actually, there'd be one suggestion. :lol: :D
     
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    Does your mother know about this young lady?
     
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    peace & love smartgurl,

    how a bout a book.................If I may "the Isis Papers" - what could more sexier for a female than an intelligent brother you already love..........

    then again, I don't know your definition of sexy sis. My definition of sexy is knowledge.....

    you and he will hopefully always be together to have your "sexy" moments, what better way to add on to your foundation of knowledge than with more knowledge.......without the mind "sexy" does not exist!

    hope this helps..............
     
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    A bottle of Givenchy calongne... or a nice watch.. not one of those bling bling watches.. but a mans watch..
     
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    no colongue...........

    a generous bottle of a good quality body oil would be nice.
     
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    Thank you everybody for the wonderful suggestions.

    PanAfrica... yes my mother knows everything. And as a matter of fact, she loves him almost as much as I do.

    Monetary... I wanna know what your one suggestion would be if we hooked up. Cause I'm not ruling out any suggestions just b/c we aren't yet official; I'm trying to do it big. :angel1:
     
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