Black People : Good bye and good luck

Discussion in 'Black People Open Forum' started by serious brother, May 13, 2016.

  1. serious brother

    serious brother Banned MEMBER

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    It's been a thrill but, I must take my leave of absence from this website.

    Good luck and best wishes to all.
     
  2. HODEE

    HODEE Well-Known Member MEMBER

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    Make a run for it serious brother. :bye: :running:This site can be addictive, and make you share some things.
     
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  3. serious brother

    serious brother Banned MEMBER

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    There's more to this site than the average person may be aware of.

    You may be right about this site fishing for information seeing it came into existence about the exact same time as INQTEL was chartered.

    In my short experience, i noticed the extreme presence of psychopathic narcissism and ambient abuse.

    To be brief, the objective is to break ones self confidence and there is one particular individual that is in on every thread with their gas lighting tactics to discredit unsuspecting individuals.
     
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    Let me help you leave, since you're talking about how you don't like us ... Rule #10

    Yet still posting as if you cannot make your own self leave, even after saying goodbye.

    I will help you. It's my pleasure.

    :heart:

    Destee
     
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    nilevalley Well-Known Member MEMBER

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    I am new here and I feel I made the right choice by becoming a member. I feel for the first time I am surrounded by
    wonderfully intelligent and talented black women and men who share a common thread, they sincerely care for the welfare of the national black community. :blowkiss:
    You are unhappily exiting while I a newcomer wonder why I didn't discover this site long ago. Well I hope you will return
    to this field of gold someday.
     
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    nilevalley Well-Known Member MEMBER

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    I have had enough experiences with other so-called to be black forums in the past to know when I hit the jackpot. I intend to be around a while I like to "cyber yak" and I appreciated when "you" a few weeks ago encouraged me to hang in after I deleted a comment. You gave a good argument on continuing on in face of criticism and not retracting your opinions. You ended posting your thoughts with the statement, "I got your back"
    I really appreciated that. You and a few others are the ones that give a strong and stable foundation to this black forum. Please stay that way. :five:
     
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    HODEE Well-Known Member MEMBER

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    There use to be Ban's of a month or so. Rules had to get tighter.. violations not allowed. The young lady who introduced me to the site (13) years ago.. was banned. We both came in HOT! I still miss my partner in crime.:spank:
     
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    butterfly#1 going above and beyond PREMIUM MEMBER

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    Nice!
     
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    We are so glad to have you with us! ... :swings:

    Thank you for the love! ... :yaay: :yaay: :yaay:





    uhhhh ... you aint new no moe ... :lol: ... :rofl: ... :love:

    Love You!





    Thank you so much again. It's really nice when folk feel the energy of our home and like it ... :love:

    You do not ever have to delete your comments! You get to say what you want, just like everyone else.

    The first line of defense for a Member you do not want to hear, is to put them on ignore.

    You can also click on the REPORT link under the offending post, we will check it out.

    The rules "have your back" along with those Members keeping you encouraged ... :grouphug:

    Say what you want respectfully and if they can't handle it ... poor them ... :console:

    I really appreciate the love and show of support ... thank you very much ... :cry:




    Yes, we still do sometimes. Each ban is different. We have removed permanent bans too.

    13 years is a long time ... :dblock: ... if you send me a private conversation I will unban them ... :love:

    Love You!





    Hi Sister! Welcome Home ... :love:
     
  10. nilevalley

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    Sometimes Hodee those bans can be good. I was briefly part of a a so-called black forum ( I say so-called because a few of
    the members had formed their own "tight circle of friendship and it got out of hand) this is not what a rightful public black forum is suppose
    to be about. There was a lot cursing, name calling and angry explicit explanations of each these members sex lives.
    This forum had the potential to be an outstanding discussion site.
    But the moderators allowed all this chaos to rage among this small group of people. Oh, there were black topics posted by more mature people that were very interesting, but that small group of men and women with all their bickering and the chaos that arose from the constant bashing, cut a terrible gash into that site.
    Sometimes it helps to be have tough rules that is how you evolve a powerful and successful black forum.
     
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