Black Relationships : Getting tested! when??and is this been taking serius ?is it still a taboe?

LibertyLady

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Hi guys i wanted to start a topic about ......
sumthing that is still going on today....
I heard on the news that the numbers of hiv is increasing...
everywhere ...
In the country of my father the numbers of young hiv infected
are increasing and of course we know in africa and all over the world...
and these numbers are probebly more because a lot of cases are unknown
Some people in the world still think its far from home...

Ofcourse using condoms having safe sex is one of the inportant things we have to do..to fight this disease..

but Is it the ultimate protection ?
Now we all know that everyone can get il and i mean as far as any kind of desease...
there was a case of a child that was infected with during the pregnancy
and the dokters gave her 1 year.....
she still lives and is more healthy than an other child who has blood cancer..
So we all know that eventually our lives are in gods hands..

We also know that even if you are in a relationship and you both have tested
that that is still isnt asurance ,because there are manny casses that eventualy one of the partners couldnt let it to have sex outside the relationship and with bad luck the condom broke and brought the.....thing home...


Now there are casses that there are couples who have a relationship ..
and have safe sex who come at the point that they are settle down...
but they dont test before they put the condom aside...
because it turns out that this testing thing is still a TABOE...
or they are both scared to do it for the outcome...
so they leave it aside...

I would like to know how ya all feel about this.


When is it time to getting tested...?

and do you think that people are taking it seriusly?

What is extreme and what is not.....?

How inportent is trust in all this...

And have there been cases that people saperated because of getting tested?

this is maybe a heavy topic maybe not...
feel free to respond..




Love Libertylady :heart:
 
Hello My Dear Darling Sister LibertyLady ... :love:

i think a person should get tested as soon as they have engaged in any activity that could have possibly left them infected ... and all months following that initial encounter, or whatever they are suggesting these days. I don't even know ... up to 6 months after the act?

In regard to folk not taking this seriously ... i don't really know. I know what the news reports say, but i can only go by my own behaviour ... and it's very protective of me. I can only hope that my Sisters and Brothers love themselves enough to look out for themselves.

:heart:

Destee
 
They say the latest HIV test can detect the virus in you as soon as 2 months after an encounter.

Random sex is just not an option at all, even if you use protection.

The safest thing to do if you are planning on having sex is to both submit to an HIV test before engaging in any act, and then still using safe sex once you do.

Other than that....abstain.
 
I agree which should close the doors on cheating coz too many sex partners
is never health of good even if protected but safe sex should be no options
yes the rise of HIV virus has become bigger and reaching far out spreading like
wildflowers the only way to cut this number is to be safe and have one sex partner
and try to stop the use of sharing needles ......the Question is what can be done
to curve some of this sad drama that's taking lives at rapid speed ?
 

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