Black Relationships : Getting around

There's more to a woman than just a c00chie. There's quality time, the ability to understand her man and offer kind words, having children, a roll-partner, a good friend. I have seen guys turn a fast woman into wifey, and not give a darn about her having slept around. I take it these particular guys find this task challenging, especially if she was a playette:getout: prior to being with him
 
panafrica said:
Understood...however I still believe that making oneself attractive to a potential mate happens while single. Again if a woman is marriage minded, she "should" conduct herself in ways to attract a future husband. This means not sleeping around with everyone who is "fine"...it means not having 4 different kids by 4 different baby daddies...making oneself "attractive" means more than dressing nice & putting on make up! The same goes for men as well, as I wouldn't think a man who has children all over town would attract a marriage minded woman (although this doesn't match the day to day reality of what I see).

Yes, that was my point...it must be applied to both sides. Concerning more women accepting promiscuous men, than men accepting promiscuous women...i wish i could contribute that to men being "better'" mate choosers...but that would be a lie. If both me and my boyfriend have slept with 20 people, and I forgive him while he rejects me....nothing but a double standard.

In my generation, (I am only 20)...few of the males I grew up with, and encounter in college could fall into the following categories: childless, sexually responsible, and woman friendly (not just sex objects).

But yes, I agree with you..... :witch:
 
spicybrown said:
There's more to a woman than just a c00chie. There's quality time, the ability to understand her man and offer kind words, having children, a roll-partner, a good friend. I have seen guys turn a fast woman into wifey, and not give a darn about her having slept around. I take it these particular guys find this task challenging, especially if she was a playette:getout: prior to being with him

That's a recipe for disaster and (IMO) only a fool would take a chance on a whore. It's hard enough finding a good woman period, but to knowingly marry someone that has been living the life of an uncompensated porn star, is just plain stupid. There's nothing hot about a playette, and it baffles the mind why someone would take her vows seriously.
 
Sanaiah25 said:
Yes, that was my point...it must be applied to both sides. Concerning more women accepting promiscuous men, than men accepting promiscuous women...i wish i could contribute that to men being "better'" mate choosers...but that would be a lie. If both me and my boyfriend have slept with 20 people, and I forgive him while he rejects me....nothing but a double standard.

In my generation, (I am only 20)...few of the males I grew up with, and encounter in college could fall into the following categories: childless, sexually responsible, and woman friendly (not just sex objects).

But yes, I agree with you..... :witch:

It does need to be applied to both sides; however, we can only work on our own side!
 
kente417mojo said:
That's a recipe for disaster and (IMO) only a fool would take a chance on a whore. It's hard enough finding a good woman period, but to knowingly marry someone that has been living the life of an uncompensated porn star, is just plain stupid. There's nothing hot about a playette, and it baffles the mind why someone would take her vows seriously.
Great, so I guess you can call O.J., Montell,Ben Affleck, Ray-Ray from around the way, and the rest of the crew a bunch of FOOLS:slobber:
 

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