It's thanksgiving and here comes all the family I got to see my cousins baby for the first time (shes lovely) her 2nd child. Shes a school teacher never been married 30 something! Now I know mistakes happen, the condom broke ect...and all that! But for the life of me I cannot understand why a woman would have a baby for a man that won't make a commitent to her for marriage I mean a child is a minimum a 18 yr commitment. WHY ladies? You 're the ones having the child! and no matter how much a man wants a baby he can't have one unless you give it to him (he can't force you to have it, its woman's right chose! there is no court that will force you to have his child) If he's such great father material why ain't he huband material? if ya think ya gonna keep him by having his child or you just want to have him in your life? Look at all the single mothers and how they berate thier (and I hate this term) "BABY DADDY" Why do you think you gonna be the lucky one (So many success stories out there I guess) Why are so many women getting caught up? Why do men plant thier seed with women that they have no intention of being wth? With all the diseases out there, you'd think that no children would be born, cause only a fool would have unprotected sex in this ERA ,but I still see a lot a single mothers. Maybe they just making cheaper condoms?