Hey family. I have a question. If you married someone and they gained alot of weight after the marriage or during the course of the marriage, how would you feel? What if they did nothing to lose the weight, instead they kept getting bigger and more out of shape? Do you think it's your duty as a spouse to stick around for better or for worse? What could be done to make the situation better if the person is not motivated enough to lose the weight? Most of all, why does this happen? It's men and women that have a tendancy to "cease to impress" after the ring is on the finger.