Black Relationships : From Like To Love, How Do U Know?

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  1. MORE

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    HOW DO U KNOW, WHEN U GO FROM JUST LIKING A PERSON, TO LOVING A PERSON? WHAT WILL U DO DIFFERENTLY, IF YOUR WILLING TO CHANGE THINGS ABOUT URSELF THAT MAY BE UNCOOL FOR THE OTHER PERSON OR RELATIONSHIP, IS THAT A SIGN OF LOVE???

    :rolleyes: ;) :love:
     
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    I really don't know, I have the same question to an extent because I'm pretty sure I'm in love with this girl. The only thing I can say is when that part becomes a part of you, when their is a deep emotional pull and when something (some people call that something your heart but physically I don't know what it in) is you body needs (like a drug) that person. I might not be any help so I hope some one can answer this question.
     
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    good question !
    from likes to love is a part of ya inner emotions that flow to da heart and the feelings become far more wider and compassion set in u will to me know when this start to change the way u
    do things and how u see that mate as a whole mentally/ spiritually/physically ya true feelings and heart will say so
    the change made to a love from likes is very different to a point

    to find self in love from liking a person is deep within the soul
    the great vibe u feel inside and how the person is taken
    ya true nature of who u are makes it all happen it's yet not
    known truely how all this really works but the outline of it
    is posed through your emotional feelings ...
     
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    Something is missing in the equation

    There's another "L" word that can complicate this question but I think it's important to mention--and that is LUST! Now, I'm not sure I know the answer to the original question, but I think that if others do, all three elements (which can have similar effects) should be discussed.

    Good question Sister More!

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    yes LUST is within the family of such with LOVE and to like
    where one so like with the deeper feeling to carry over to
    fine the soulmate to love but down the path a passion of
    lust come to play in the game that many get caught up in
    and forth true love is a myth of what should and could be
    in the relationship, but if the facts of lust play less role in the
    true action of how u like a person and what the feelings of
    your action with emotions to love be for this person then you
    in the very unique way this feeling will come to you like a
    breath taken emotional charge you will feel a deeper tingle
    that send a sure sign to the mental brain cell that transform the reaction to the heart of cares .....

    lust is the solo partner of simple sex !
    where as to love has a deeper feeling in the act of love making
    of two souls on course in the motions of bodly mix

    when you like someone it cast a feeling too that say u have
    the notions to love this person as to lust that makes a statement
    that say i want to have sex with this person out of what tingle
    feeling i have inside me but deep down true love is a myth of
    what you may lone for , if it's love within will allow the body to
    caress the notions of love is coming a strong signal is posed
    like a shockwave to the mind that cross to the feeling the heart
    holds

    here is when the likes of someone become love with the affection
    and deep compassion that allow self to hold devotion for this person within the heart and the cares of what you feel seeps
    out through words of such (I Love You) and so forth
    the body will let you know your true feelings
    again we in the act on the path to loving get in the web of lust
    and we loose focus and fine self not in love at all just a moment
    of heated passion ........

    LOVE
    LUST which partner with sex
    and the F word all play a different role yet in ways act out in the same fashion only to a point where the two whom mate carry it
    the choice is within and the emotional true feelings of what you
    are and where you carry it too.

    you will know the different , your mind and body will say so.
     
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    Like to love...its easy to tell. When its hard to go through your day without thinking of him, it's love. When he hurts, you hurt, it's love. When you cannot imagine a day without him, it's love. When he talks to you with his eyes, and you can too, its love. If you like him, you care about him, yet you won't spend endless days thinking of him, yearning for more than friendship.
    Like rich says, love is the sharing of a soul in two separate bodies, it is a deep bond that two people share. And yes your body will let you know when its love, you want to share more than just your time, and interests, you want to share all of you and receive the same in return...

    ...ahhhhh how nice it is to imerge from friendship likes, to love...

    I dream...I live...I am

    The Dreamer
     
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    I feel the same way girl. I went from liking a boy to loving him. We talk to each other everyday. He calls me every morning almost. We have that connection
     
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    indeed when you like a guy it's a moment when face to face
    but when you make that change from like to loving
    it's when u think of one as a soulmate a very close friend
    u can then express your inner feelings with but if LUST at
    any point come to play it will then become a passion to love
    and here where we get lost and sexuality come to play
    and in some cases we now no longer have the desires to love but had that moment of bliss and some can from that point become lovers .....
    liking a person now hard but to love them takes a deeper look
    inside the heart and soul of a person , here we all seek out
    true facts of a could be mate we look into the history of ones beings and once you become a thinker of he/she and lay down before sleep and think of he/she even a nightly call or morning wake up then love is forming a new beings of two and then where trust and respect is born with togetherness
    the tranforming from likes to love is a great affectionate feeling.
     
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    boy i feel what you are saying. Sex and love are very different. There is a thin line between sex and love.Holla if you feel what i am saying
     
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    THANKS FOR UR RESPONSES, but now im thinking of it

    love is not a feeling, it's something we do. i really don't tbink love has to do with how we feel emotionally , like the yearning and desire to see them all the time, but i think it is more disciplined than that. love is more action, than feeling. wow.:toast: :kiss: :kiss: :kiss:
     
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