Hi, I am new and would like to ask a question I have been pondering for a while. Is it possible for black women to have real deep friendships without being accused of being lesbians or being anti black man? Can females gather without the supervision of males or a male appointed female overseer? Must every black female gathering center around black men to pass muster? Why are black people particularly men suspicioius of black women who have close friendships? I just ask because much is made of the alleged intense animosity between black females. However, when black females maintain friendships, black men are often threatened and accuse them of all sorts of stuff. Has anyone else noticed this?