Ladies I have this best friend since I was 14. She married 2 yrs ago and since than she is very distant. When we make plans to go out in which she initiates,she turns around and cancels. Then when I ask her why she does not go anywhere anymore ,she said she's married now and going out to kick it gets old ! Then she says me and my husband and daughter go on trips and I don't have time for anything else,inphasis on husband! I guess friends do too is what she is saying. I do recall when I was married and carrying my daughter we still went out to eat and shows,concerts. I still invited her over and kept in touch with her. Well recently she is going through the soon to be 30yr old itch and now she wants to cheat and basically call me more and be my friend. Everything her husband does bothers her. It is really petty, the things she complains about. She is seeing other guys as friends she says and now she seems to call me more and befriend me again. I donot understand why people cannot balance marriage and friends. Furthermore I'm not sure I want to be bothered! Any suggestions?