Black Relationships : Freeloaders

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  1. MsInterpret

    MsInterpret Well-Known Member MEMBER

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    Have you ever been with someone that you were in a relationship that was a freeloader?

    Or maybe it was a family member?

    Definition of Freeloader (wiki):
    The term "Freeloader" in everyday speech refers to the economic free rider problem, the act of refusing to do work without valid excuses/reasons for being noncontributing to the work being finished.

    More generally, the term refers to a "mooch" or a schnorrer.

    Can we also say that we have some folks in the community who are freeloaders also?
     
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    $$RICH$$ Lyon King Admin. STAFF

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    The world is made with unknown , freeloaders and mini moochers
    often we see it and lots of us work hard to get a free ride off someone else
    which is moreso called a shame or scheming to get by , they are all around
    us and often not spoted until they reviel themselves .

    Yes i have been around a freeloader , delt with one and even once had feelings for one
    but that's life and learning .
     
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    Bootzey Well-Known Member MEMBER

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    YES I HAVE....

    In multiple ciphers.

    I am now considered evil by most folks. I refuse to repeat mistakes over and over.

    I don't understand why people think it's cool to use you like that
     
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    That's because we allow it and continue to give /support and love there
    using ways or we act blind to what is really happening , often a family
    member is our biggest freeloader, we do it out the thing call love or to not
    hurt there feelings

    so many reasons why we accept it