Black Relationships : For the Guys

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  1. legit-writer

    legit-writer Well-Known Member MEMBER

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    How would you show your girl that you are serious about her. And also what would have you wondering if she is serious about you? Thanks!
     
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    Communication

    Just tell her that you want to get serious, and listen to her response. She will probably tell you what she needs to see from you.
     
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    By telling her and showing how u care and want to share your beings
    with her and allow her to answer but watch her expression / movement
    and eyes that will help answer you .

    Be up front and truthful as well real ....
     
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    legit-writer Well-Known Member MEMBER

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    I know you are in a relationship... at least the last time i checked you were. So how did you show her you're serious about her?
     
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    Affection cannot be rehearsed.
    Whatever you feel for her, bring it to life.
    If you're unsure of how to show her than you're not ready.
     
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    Let her know that I am exclusively interested in her. Ask her if she feels/thinks likewise. Be as accountable to her as I possibly can. Attend to her physical, emotional, intellectual, spiritual, social, financial needs & desires. And answer any questions she poses to me, with only two exceptions: 1) I will never criticize or share personal information about a former partner (i.e., childhood molestation), 2) the exactness of my finances. When we are at the point of considering official engagement and planning towards marriage, then “exception 2” goes by the wayside.
     
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    Be a man of your word. Flowers. Chocolates. Remembering b-days, Valentines day.
     
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