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[PoeticManifesta]

maybe hes using em to boost his ego.. men are twisted sometimes.. mabe he wants somebody on his end to "find" them.. you know the old saying one mans loss,. is anothers gain.. well.. maybe he is hoping another lady would hear these messages.. and want him like you do.


this is what my brother and i came up with.

 

[fenixrisin]

maybe hes using em to boost his ego.. men are twisted sometimes.. mabe he wants somebody on his end to "find" them.. you know the old saying one mans loss,. is anothers gain.. well.. maybe he is hoping another lady would hear these messages.. and want him like you do.


this is what my brother and i came up with.

THANK YOUR BROTHER FOR BEING HONEST!!! I am only making a point that as human beings, we ALL have our fallacies, insecurities and the like AND we do take sometimes sick joy of not being on the receiving end of heart break. Men are no different.

 

[fenixrisin]

Sister Fenixrisin ... you say this like it is some sort of prize ... just recompense ... or something??!!

So what if a man ... who has broken your heart ... told you that he doesn't want to speak to you ... is not interested in you ... so what if he comes back and says "Hey, Wassup?!!"

This is very little to glean joy from.

In fact, it's almost like being happy that you could get a drop of blood from a turnip.

* sigh *





Destee

Sorry to disappoint Destee, but yeah. I have to admit that the rare times that I have been the dumpee (lol), when the dumper has called back or written months later to admit fault or whatever, I've felt vindicated. It's kind of like, "see, I knew it wasnt me.." Sad, but true. She doesnt have to take him back, but hey, whatever gets one through.

 

[Monetary]

THANK YOUR BROTHER FOR BEING HONEST!!!

You didn't speak on this...so I'll ask.

Question: Did the other brothas who responded to legit-writer's original post LIE because they thought something different than he's twisted for keeping the messages?

Just curious.

 

[Monetary]

Sorry to disappoint Destee, but yeah. I have to admit that the rare times that I have been the dumpee (lol), when the dumper has called back or written months later to admit fault or whatever, I've felt vindicated. It's kind of like, "see, I knew it wasnt me.." Sad, but true. She doesnt have to take him back, but hey, whatever gets one through.

Are there any exceptions to this? Are you saying that EVERY guy that has broken up with you has called you back? Or, do you mean on average the guy usually calls you back? QQn

Just looking for clarification.