This post has been a long time coming for me. it is a culmination of seeing some of the people/relationships within my own family, with some friends/aquaintances and just some of us in general>>>>> PLEASE give some thought to who you give yourselves to. Whether male or female! I have been disturbed/disgusted by people talking about "I would give him/her some cause they got $$" and such. Listen up people. Whorish behavior is DETRIMENTAL to us as a people!!! Yup, I am a FREAK. yup, I LOVE sisters (in all shades, shapes, hair styles etc...) but NOT A HO! how about loving someone for who they are, not what they have or can give you. lastly, I am truly disturbed when I here AFRIKANS talking about relationships as if they were PRISON SENTENCES!! That type of mess NEVER used to be amongst. It does not make you attractive to sound like that. Also, Please stop saying we dont need each other. You know, all that crazy talk. we DO need each other! Our entire future as a people depends on our relationships! MAN and WOMAN! Not Man/Man or Woman/Woman. I am not going to get into a pissin contest over this. this is stated truth. You can listen if you choose. P.S. Much of this counter productive behavior is caused by being around that wild beast that has learned to walk on 2 feet.