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  1. DEK

    DEK Member MEMBER

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    Hi everyone,I 'm living in london and my gal is living in ITALY.we have seen each other during this summer.but this month it was my turn to call and i completely forgot.so last week she called me and she said that there is this guy, who is interested in her.I bang the phone call ,coz i was shocked and hurt.later i called and she told me that this guy is like me(behaviour and physique)and that she is fancing their chit-chat because i don't call her as she call me.my best friend(his brother) said that i should call her more ,not be absent,and that i should not play games(as i once did,telling her that i was going out with a friend of mine).right now is a long time that we are not calling each other and i'm feeling like we are falling apart.so bros,should i stop playing games to let her become jealous as she was doing to me(coz to me it seems that she's trying to get me jealous)?and what should i do to let how relationship be steady(of course i will call her more)????????please i really need some advices. :insane:
     
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    Auroraflower Well-Known Member MEMBER

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    ok easy now brother...



    here are some chill out flowers . :flowers:



    The first thing you need to do now ....


    is put youre hands together and pray for calmness to the almighty...

    Than you tell him what youre problem is ....
    if you dont know god yet than its a good moment to introduce yourself cause youre heart is sad......

    say youre name...

    now he alredy knows what youre problem is ....
    cause he made you ..and he might has already solved it...
    but you have to place him above anything ..
    so even this girl...
    than he is going to make everything alright..
    rather the two of you are going to date again or not..
    you have to trust in him that he will make you feel alright eventualy ,
    tonight tomorow about a week about a few minutes......

    but...

    you can



    call her up....
    and just be honest with her...
    tell her how you feel...
    at least you have expressed yourself than....

    if you like her tell her....
    and ask her if the feeling is mutuaL...
    still....

    and all the beautifull things you want to say to her...

    but you have to be honest.....





    and be cool with the brother ....i mean her brother..




    and so if she still wants to chit chat ..that is cool than
    if she does not....
    than you have to let it go...
    i mean let her go...

    and move on do youre thing youre work or school..
    and there must be other nice girls around who like to chit chat...






    much strenght and Godsguidance to you bro....

    Youre going to be alright...

    as long as you reach out To the mighty..





    Loveauroraflower:heart:
     
  3. Deepvoice

    Deepvoice Well-Known Member MEMBER

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    Long distance relationships, it should be a oxymoron if you ask me, lol. Neither one of my twin sisters who were and still are in the Navy were never able to keep a man. I guess one of the drawbacks for seeing the world and being career women, I guess.
     
  4. DEK

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    thank u 4 advice.i've thoght about a lot of options and solutions but i forgot the main answer to all kind of problem:MY SAVIOUR JESUS CHRIST.
     
  5. Auroraflower

    Auroraflower Well-Known Member MEMBER

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    halleluja :love:




    huge to you brother...




    let me now how you are doing ok....



    keep in touch...








    Loveauroraflower:heart:
     
  6. DEK

    DEK Member MEMBER

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    hi auroraflower i hope u'r fine .concerning my gal bcoz she was going to the camp meeting with the church,i decided to call her and she was happy saying that it's a long time james(the boy that was calling her) is not calling her(actually when she told me i was really overjoyed).she told me that she really fancies my calls and told me that she feel considered as somebody important in my life.i have to thank GOD and you as well ,so i'm saying to you a big thank you.so what about you?are u schooling or whatever????????tell me something about yo.keep in touch love DeK.
     
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    Auroraflower Well-Known Member MEMBER

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    beautifull ,good to hear bro:grouphug:


    keep on moving to gods light...
    he will help you ,as long as you stay Tight with him,
    and destee,s family will back you up :grouphug:




    yes ........i,m schooling to ....


    i,m 30 ..years old and i go to a school....









    the name of the school is called ""life"' :climb:







    lol yep...









    Loveauroraflower:heart:
     
  8. DEK

    DEK Member MEMBER

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    by His grace,things are fine,but i really miss her.but in october i will see her.i hope that u'r fine and that u'll continue to attend this special school and attendit with excelent grades.lov Dek
     
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    Lloyd Well-Known Member MEMBER

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    Wow brother!Do u REALLY surrender to her?U do believe in love or not?Itz...strange!Maybe u r the future "Di Caprio" in Titanic
     
  10. DEK

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    does it look like i'm surrendered to her??????really.maybe it's just because i do believe in love.actually after my 1st girlfriend betrayed me with my friends(it's sounds shocking,i know),i thought i couldn't really care 4 somebody anymore.but after 2 years and half i found her:my gal Ja.she really let me trust people again,and she has been always there to help me whenever i was down,even though i was unbearable.she's really special.anyway do u think that i should take some time,or that i'm giving her myself too much?????????so i'm waiting 4 advices,suggestions,critics or whatever u have to tell me(and that will enrich me)concerning this my last points.i'm looking forward to hear from y'all.
     
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