Black Relationships : for all the brothas out there... a serious question

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  1. thaREDDizbak

    thaREDDizbak Active Member MEMBER

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    why is it that black men are becomind disinterested in black women???

    ive noticed a lot more interracial couples lately, and im curious about why black men prefer women of other races over women of color...

    if you could let me know what your take is on the subject id appreciate it
     
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    Have you considered that you are fine tuning your senses to find more interracial couples than you have done before?
    :10500:


    As a brother I can say I've become even more interested.

    In fact I think Black woman are the shiznick
    Have U seen miss usa?

    Crystle Stewart

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    So I guess it's not just me

    personnell favorite is

    Ms. Taccara Jones :hearts3: :10600: :hearts3:

    [​IMG]:hearts3: :10600: :hearts3:

    :court:
     
  3. Da Street So'ja

    Da Street So'ja Banned MEMBER

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    real strange

    we don't even see ourselves as compatible lol

    i say everyone has fallen victim to the magic trick

    confusion

    and illusionati
     
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    HUH?

    I'm not sure where you are living...but here in Memphis they are rare because we have too many fine sistahs to stray. But, speaking as a brotha who has dated a white woman, it was a matter of just accepting the connection and letting it be. I wasn't attracted to her at first. In fact, I turned her down more than once. But, she wore me down and I felt like a hypocrite for saying I couldn't date her because of the color of her skin when I was an advocate for getting rid of all racial barriers.

    Now I am with a sistah because I am more attracted to them. I got to have a big butt...but that's just me.
     
  5. thaREDDizbak

    thaREDDizbak Active Member MEMBER

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    im not saying i have a problem with interracial couples, it was just an observation. you love who you love baby, thats all there is to it

    ive dated primarily black men, but ive dabbled in the other races too.

    i just seem to have better relationships with black men. i guess we have more (socially and culturally) in common.
     
  6. jamesfrmphilly

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    this stuff should go in da IR forum.....

    ain't no body got no time to be worrying bout no white women.:witch:
    i put my energy on black people what want to be wit black people.

    read da masthead - We Are About Loving, Encouraging, Embracing, Teaching and Building With Black People
     
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    Kemetstry going above and beyond PREMIUM MEMBER

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    I am in no way disinterested in BW :10400::SuN014::qqb011::SuN004::hearts2::em3700::kiss::hearthis::callme: But having traveled a bit, there are some females of other races that can make you forget your name with their beauty
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    jamesfrmphilly going above and beyond PREMIUM MEMBER

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    so what....

    i ain't never seen one who make me forget i am black.
     
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    Funny, with all the so-called beauty of these other races why do they try so hard to look like sistahs, i.e. sun tanning, lip enlargement, breast enlargement, booty enlargements, melanin injections And to add the men of these other races of women (who are supposedly so beautiful) are always trying to get with sistahs (mostly on the down low) while talking in open about how ghetto she is, or how big her booty is, how she is out to get you, and all the other b.s. There is nothing more beautiful than an sistah except another sistah. You can't compare the copy (the copy = mankind=Caucasians and Caucasoids; Caucasoids= Caucasian subgroups, Latinos, Chinese, Japanese, Hindu, etc) with the original / Hue-mans (Black woman and man).

    Tranquility
     
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    :qqb004::11100:One has nothing to do with the other :fyi:







     
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