Black Relationships : Flirting

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  1. CarrieMonet

    CarrieMonet Well-Known Member MEMBER

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    Flirting. There is something so energizing about it. I do not know if it is the give and take or the thrill of silent communication. Maybe it is the sexual energy (at times slight, others overpowering), whatever the case may be flirting can be a very satisfying part of an encounter. For some it is the true start of foreplay.

    Some people are better at it than others, and some do it instinctively, like breathing.

    Do you enjoy the art of flirting? If your mate flirts, do you consider that cheating? Can flirting harm a relationship?
     
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    I love flirting. I love seeing a woman try to turn her head really quick and catch her staring. It's basically saying "Mmmmmm, you look tasty". I do think flirting in a relationship is .....well, not cheating, but incredibly disrespectful. But we all still do it. Flirting will definately harm.....make that.......end a relationship with me if I catch you doing it.
     
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    Hey, fam

    Without a doubt, flirting is exhilarating. Some days I get in the mode, and I am amazed at myself. A play on words, a lingering smile. Sometimes something subtle, sometimes something overt. But I only do it when I am not involved in a relationship. Right now, its open season. LOL!!

    To think of all the years of flirting I missed out on because I was so shy.....
     
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    Flirting is a real big "turn on" for me...I love flirting with a deep, veeeery deep passion, but only with my husband. I think it's the cutiest thing for your other half to walk in a store or wherever you are and walk up behind you and whisper sweet nothings in your ear.
     
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    the hell with flirting.
    i like to throw them on the bed and lift their skirts.
     
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    lol@ James ....
    flirting can be fun and how the play between two go on i love to flirt
    but in a respectable way without all the dirty stuff it's harmless to me
    but it can sometime go way too far and bring confusion it's all how your
    mate see it or feel about it . But flirting is fun it just show the warm
    personality of a person, i love to flirt it really brings a smile and quick
    thinking when one flirt back it can be a hot book within it self nothing
    really wrong with it if you pose respect and know it's all in fun
    BEWARE at WORK flirting is sexual Harassment to a level careful here!
    DANGER ! DANGER !! DANGER !!!
     
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    LMAO Rich... sexual harassment... lol....

    flirting in a relationship is disrespectful... no matter what venue it is executed in... it's uncalled for... i have been told that i flirt a considerable amount; however i am inclined to ignore that as misunderstanding. I am a people person. I will joke and laugh with the best of them NO matter what sex they are. I do not see this as flirting; however if my mate deemed it so i would quickly modify my behavior...

    i am inclined to believe queen.. flirting is best practiced, most well recieved, and most exilerating when done with your mate. i'm a blusher... sends tingles... get really quiet... ohh.. it's doing something to me right now... lol...
     
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    i dont Flirt...



    i give people compliments...

    somthimes people considder it as flirting...(but i say when it is a compliment and when i mean it)

    i mean what i say...

    (i mean i can come back on certain things i am not perfect ..
    especially when people play with my emotions)



    but if i express myself ,when i like someone ..

    i mean it.......:bye:










    flirting they say can be nice.....

    somethimes...


    but watch out..


    with flirting...

    cause some people could believe what you say....

    in what you considder was just a flirt....


    and than the person gets hurt...



    so maybe its an idee that people ...jUst say when they ment it..

    or when they ment it as a flirt.....




    Please brother and sisters Do...
    cause you can get yourself in Deep trouble at the end and running in circles at the end...



    Yes we can have some fun...


    but please...




    Know what words are.......

    use them not only for Fun..

    but also for good purpeses....






    other wise we can get al confused......


    and there is already so much confusion going on in the world..














    Loveauroraflower:heart:
     
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    I love to flirt and do it as much as possible........to me flirting is like tossing out a fishing bait....sometimes you get nibbles and it's fun but you know you're not catching that fish but sometimes you get BIT and it's on because you know you're not only catching that trophy but taking it home and eating it :grin: ........I honestly do love flirting though there's nothing better to me.....it's very sensual IMO ........



    MississippiRed
     
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    There's a science to flirting...

    When I was younger I was a
    serious student of human behavior.
    I had a Psychology / Sociology
    encyclopedia set of Human Behavior from
    Time Life. It contained many many articles
    about sexuality which I poured over
    voraciously. :eeek: *lol* My favorite
    articles were about sexual attraction
    and flirting. They discussed eye contact,
    body language, pheromes, mating rituals etc...
    I tried some of the techniques out :flirt: (on a regular basis...)
    and they worked like clockwork :time: everytime !
     
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