Black Relationships : First Love

Discussion in 'Black Relationships' started by CarrieMonet, Aug 13, 2004.

  1. CarrieMonet

    CarrieMonet Well-Known Member MEMBER

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    How old were you when you had your first love? Does that person you first fell in love with still hold a place in your heart?
     
  2. kente417mojo

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    Honestly, I don't think I've ever been "in love". I have loved women that I was with...but I don't think I was "in love". No woman to this day has made me "fall in love" with her. I still care about them but I also know that I can do without them. I haven't met that person that just makes me crazy and can't live without. That's pretty bad.
     
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    I was 17 when I had my 1st true love...she stayed in my heart for a few years after when broke up; however, I eventually moved on. Now she is nothing but a distant memory.
     
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    Aww ur still a very young man... she's on her way... :love: You have plenty of time....


    Kente, I was exactly your age when I met my first true love and after 9 yrs together with 5 of those being in wedlock, my love for him grows stronger everyday. So much so, I can barely remember life without him and when I do it makes me sad :crying:


    Much Love,
    Akilah :spinstar:
     
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    i was 19 but she didn't linger in my heart too long after once i move
    forward and met a nother young lady but i was a bit wild so it didn't
    hurt as much becasue i always felt i can get another girl faster then
    one leave .
     
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    bout 16 (i guess. that was my first).... we're best friends now... pretty close... he'll be around for a while....
     
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    wow...my first love is my best friend we share our happy times and our sad times together...and i think he will always hold a special place in my heart. :wink:
     
  8. kente417mojo

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    Awwww, go on now.....your just saying that. :x: You're too sweet. Yeah, I have time but it sure would be nice to meet someone while I'm still young. I definately won't rush it because I do have time, but I hope I'm not old and gray by the time I find someone to stay with forever. It seems like everyone else has been in love at a young age.
     
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    Oh goodness, my first love appeared when I was 18 years old. I was absolutely sprung!! It continued into my adult years, even though we were no longer together. It finally died when he got married. And though we didn't end up together, I wouldn't change anything about the experience. He was very sweet to me. He was a little older.


    For Kente: It will come. And you will know it instantly. There is nothing like being in love.
     
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    Hey Jazzy......I just hope it happens after I'm sure I'm being loved. I don't want to have my nose all open. :nono: I'm pretty sure it's not something that I'm going to be able to choose. :lol: :lol: It's cool though. I'm looking forward to it. :love:
     
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