Black Relationships : fellas which would you prefer

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  1. carmal23

    carmal23 Member MEMBER

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    A couple of years back this guy told me that black men define black women as the following:

    1. If you are pretty in the face but are skinny, you are just cute
    2. If you are unattractive in the face but have a big booty then you are considered fine

    Now fellas is this how most black men think when it comes to sistas or just some of you.

    Please put your thoughts to this subject
     
  2. kente417mojo

    kente417mojo Well-Known Member MEMBER

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    I'll take number 1. At least I can look at her and kiss her. I can't kiss an ugly woman and that's half the attraction right there. A pretty face is most important. A big booty doesn't make you fine. Look at Serena Williams.
     
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    panafrica Well-Known Member MEMBER

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    I don't think most black men are as shallow or as simple as this "one" guy indicated. That was his personal opinion.
     
  4. carmal23

    carmal23 Member MEMBER

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    Thanks for your replies I just wanted to know what other men thought about this. As a woman I wouldn't want a man just cause he had a body like 50 cent and was ugly in the face. I would still have to wake up to his face every morning.
     
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    Everyone wants someone that appeals to them physically, but a face goes a long way. I'd rather have the entire package, but if I had to pick one quality it would have to be the face. I think most men find the body most important. Breast, thighs and booty are great, but when they are attached to a woman that looks like Flava Flav...what's the point. I don't think black men put black women in those two categories very often though because most black women have decent or bangin' bodies anyways. It's other races that lack when it comes to having absolutley no shape at all most of the time. A skinny black woman usually doesn't have a flat @ss.
     
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    i hope your personnel selections are based on more than this.
    you appear quite shallow from your posts.
     
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    Sup, Fam?

    I can't speak for the brotha. But, what I think he meant by those comments is that a woman's face is judged separately from her body. Ok (aiight), cute, pretty, beautiful, gorgeous etc are terms usually reserved for a woman's face. The word "fine" and other terms of expressions not included on the list for describing her face is used to describe a woman's shape/figure, curves, etc. It's about what you find appealing about a woman without ever talking to her. Some call it physical attraction. There's nothing to it. And, it is most definitely not meant to be disrespectful to women.

    My preference: A woman with both...cute and fione. :D However, I've learned over the years that I am attracted first to a woman with a great personality and second, to a woman with curves. She can have a little meat on her bones. That's aiight with me...but she has to be curvalicious. A woman who is small with curves, thick with curves, or a little over weight with curves is cool with me. But, she has to have a great personality. :D

    peace
     
  8. carmal23

    carmal23 Member MEMBER

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    I'm not shallow I'm just not going to be with a man just because he has a tight body.
     
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    what i see and look into is far beyond the face & booty but the
    heart her respect and inner beauty the two above are far incorrect
    there is more if you ever open the book and not judge it by the cover

    some of the not so good looking women are some of the most beautiful women
    it depend how a brutha or bruthas look into a woman of there choice
    i'm just one who look deeper and beyond face & booty did you know
    the hottest face and sweetest booty can be the uglyest
     
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