Ladies do you believe that black women/black females are disadvantaged with regards to possessing the "essential" skills to build effective relationship with men? I've notice that among my firends you can pretty much tell those who have had a good relationship with their fathers or at least a relationship with their fathers. Quite frankly in generall they have a easier time (manipulating for lack of a better word :x: ) men than those who have not. Even one of my ex commented that he could usually tell within twnety minutes if a "sistah" had a relationship with her father or not...and he felt that generally such women approached relationship differently. Do any of you all have thoughts or comments?