Black People : Ever had a Stalker?

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  1. Destee

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    Hello Family,

    My daughter just called me, and as soon as i heard the phone ringing, i knew it was her. I answered, and said, "How did i know it was you?" She said, "Because i've been stalking you." :)

    In all seriousness, i'm wondering ... what exactly is a stalker ... unwanted attention?

    I've never had one ... not really ... and i've been on the Internet for many years.

    I've heard folk talk about being stalked, and i'm almost jealous ... keyword: almost ... please don't stalk me.

    Have you ever had a stalker?

    Tell us about it.

    :heart:

    Destee
     
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    ive had an obsesser.... some said he was a stalker.. but i saw im as harmless! He would show up, unnannounced... send gifts.. at the time he would monitor my cell calls online.. he gave me the cell as a gift so hey.. so whateva.. but he was jealous.. very jealous.. to the point of tears. I had to cut him.. cause i was scared he was going to snap!
     
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    now, that's a stalker. destee's daughter was just using the word. ain't it sad how sometimes a good thought can be misconstrued by the use of a slightly wrong word?
     
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    i would stalk you but i don't have bus fare to AL.............
     
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    only one?
    come on, i know you had more than that.
     
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    hey, at least it would be cheaper, and faster, than from washington state! :)
     
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    yes and it feels very uncomfortable to have someone follow you and
    show up unannounced calling displaying a obsession for you , seemly
    always there watching you and can be violent or show this deal of jealousy
    speaking of harmful words .......quicky get a RESTRAINING ORDER.

    Many what is called STALKERS have this mental dyfusion or passion for a
    person and can't accept NO or go away they use what seem to be lack of
    understanding they can be dangerous

    Also some claim that a stalker harmless to the fact that one can feel another
    or could be thinking of that person often this not a true stalker but one who
    cares or feel that person sometime my emotions , this to me is friendly or caring.

    so yes a Stalker is very unwanted that won't go away easy !
    no need to be jealous sista it's something you can live without and don't want .

    I have felt the impact of a stalker before it's scary ..........
    :danger: :danger: :danger: :danger: :nono: :danger: :danger: :danger: :danger:
     
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    yes, and he is in jail i had to file charges against him...they didnt get him for what he was doing to me but with my charge and an his wife charge got him locked up along with drug trafficing for 2 years. The sad part is he only did 1 year but he stop.

    I would go open my store he would be there. He would park across the street from my store and call, he would tell me who was in the store and get mad when a male customer would come in. he would drive up and down my street anywhere i go he was right there...it was scary and very uncomfortable.
     
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    do i count you as well then james.. you did show up unnanounced with just your super man cape on! lol :wave:





     
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    well

    I've never had a stalker..but I might have been a stalkee a time or two...lol
     
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