Overheard an interesting argument between a man and his girlfriend the other day. To sum it up she was upset with him because she found out that he was going to a "ttittie bar." He explained that it was fun and he enjoyed looking at the girls and having his ego stroked, but that was as far as it went. She countered with the idea that he was unfaithful to her beca. use he went to this kind of place. She saw it as a betrayal of trust and he saw it like an amusement park ride--you pay you money, ride and go home.
Exploitation? I hate to get into that because it is men and women exploiting each other. The women are doing it for money and the men are seeking thrills. So, it is a mutual exploitation, but is it a betrayal? Is it simply a carnival ride with no deeper meaning? Interesting, it sems that a large number of women also frequent these "ttittie bars." I don't know if they are straight or gay and I don't care, but the motivations behind all who are there would be interesting. Why do men go? That is not as simple a question as it might seem. Why do women go? Why do the women dance? In a place where everything seems to be out in the open, there seems to be quite a bit that is hidden and that is the portion that I would like to know about. Any insights, anybody?
Ra
Exploitation? I hate to get into that because it is men and women exploiting each other. The women are doing it for money and the men are seeking thrills. So, it is a mutual exploitation, but is it a betrayal? Is it simply a carnival ride with no deeper meaning? Interesting, it sems that a large number of women also frequent these "ttittie bars." I don't know if they are straight or gay and I don't care, but the motivations behind all who are there would be interesting. Why do men go? That is not as simple a question as it might seem. Why do women go? Why do the women dance? In a place where everything seems to be out in the open, there seems to be quite a bit that is hidden and that is the portion that I would like to know about. Any insights, anybody?
Ra