man I'm sick of this double standard ****! why is it okay and expected for a man to got after what he wants but if a women does it she'd desperate. Some even go as far as labeling her a stalker. Is it okay for a women to chase after a man she really has feelings for - guys do it. I know it's a big thing, "guys like to chase". I play along with that role to and it doesnt get me anywhere. How do guys feel when a women is more forward?