many times i hear people, men complaining about unwanted pregnancies, blaming single women (yes you Kemestry) for everything that happens in the black community. i've advocated this before, if you don't want children, tie the penis down on your leg, keep the zipper up, and don't give away the goodies. yes, men, i'm talking to you. stop giving up the goodies. i think men, place too much responsiblity of birth control on women. yes we have many options, the pill, the shot, now the patch and when all those fail, then men are easy to bring up abortion. for those who don't know, by the time you know you're pregnant, the heart is beating and the embryo is starting to resemble a fetus, a human being. it is always a BEING. years ago it was announced that a male birth control pill was being developed. however, i still can't see too many men rushing out to get their 3 months supply of pills. i can't imagine men not wanting children abstaining from sex but i also don't see them asking their doctor for THE SPOT. i was doing some reading today about birth control. (NOW FOR THE SALES PITCH) want to prevent or help stop male pattern baldness, clear up that adult acne, and perhaps stop some cancers such as prostrate cancer, THEN TRY THE PILL and the PATCH! it seems the they have developed a pill and patch. it seems that the pill isn't as effective in non-asians as it is in asian males. however, researchers believe that the pill and the patch combination will be much more effective in preventing unwanted, unplanned sperm deposits (pregnancies). in small print, taking the pill or patch can cause headaches, cramps, and the usual side effects that women may experience.