My cousin told me she was watching the news and this woman told how she had come out of a club with some friends in the DC area when this cat came up and asked her for her phone number. She told him no and he threatened to shoot all of them. Everybody started running then she felt a pain in her ankle. He had shot her in her ankle. When we try to say no gently so as to save a man's ego we are accused of sending mixed messages and playing games. When we use no uncertain terms we are shot. . I know this happens a lot. Not the shooting but the ungradious way men take it when a woman says no. Of course, no destee man would resort to such actions. But tell me, brothas how do you respond?