- May 26, 2019
With keeping it real, because we all know that such spousal, etc., beating do occure, within and outside of marriage relationships, as we often refer to such violent acts perpetrated usually by a man against a woman as domestic violence! Lets see, "he is committing such a violent act against her because..." Because of what? Can it be that he is violently assaulting this women he has claimed to love, actually because he really does love her? If so explain the beating? Or are there other underlining reasons, etc., for his domestic violence behavior? I personally don't subscribe to any understanding that says a man beats, and physically violates a women he claims to love! One simply doesn't react this way, while professing love for his woman! Or maybe I am wrong, etc. Yeah, perhaps somebody screwed up within the realationship, or this is a hand me down way of thinking some men received at the hands of their fathers, eleder family members, etc. It's what they saw as adolescents happening within their malfunctioning family structures, etc. Yet, I am interested as what my sistah's & Brutha's have to say! No pun intended, it's daily happening to men and women young and older within the many neighborhoods and communities throughout this nation! it seems that when relationships becomes vessels of and for domestic violence, the relationship becomes dangerous, etc. When a relationship comes down to physical blows, acts of physical violence, the situation is eroding fast! And in back tracking, this relationship perhaps certainly didn't begin in such a manner. Hell, or did it? Bottom line: Beating her to keep her won't work! A many man has lost his life, or his family thinking this! Yet, on a sad note, many women have died, been maimed for life etc., while remaining in such a violent relationship! But that's another story topic. Now, what is any man's physically beating of woman going to prove? Perhaps you Brutha's can answer this question. And perhaps you Sistha's can shed some light on why so many Black Women remain is such violent spousal relationships? Yeah... I know, it's been discussed so many times before! Yet, have any of you viewed any major changes in male or female behavior regarding subject matter?